Dating websites

Yep, even me i will talk about that. Being born during the caramail boom, i know about dating websites such as Meetic, Adopteaguy.com, edarling, and so many others. I know about them mostly due to adverts on television. I mean what’s better when you are here, nicely comfy in the evening watching the new episode of a serie you enjoy, then the adverts come. Usually you use that time to go to toilet or get a glass of water or tea or whatever. But in some cases, you just end up watching those ads and wondering what the fuck did those guy smoke when they made that crap. Anyway and between 2 ads for some toilet paper soooo soft and long and some washing powder that makes your clothes so white and clean and better than any other (*sighs*) you find some ad for a dating website. And there… you crash…. Your poor brain experience a blue screen of the death like a computer, and the only thing that come to your mind is “WHAT THE FUCK”

Yep, that’s what i was thinking the first time i saw those. The first thing i wonder is why the hell do they make ads for that, or are people THAT desperate to find a boy/girl friend to marry and so on? Because we all know dating websites have been going for a good while, and most of us went on it once, either to test or for a laugh (I am part of the second category) but to find the true love? Come on… Don’t tell me you believe you will find the love of your life on a dating website? O____o And because i know what i saw on it, i can tell, you don’t find true love on that….

Girl side: Of course, ladies first…. although to find true ladies on there, you gotta be fucking lucky. First you find all the girls you find on social networks, the one taking a pic in the bathroom…. Yep that is sexy, especially with the glasses and the flash of the camera or phone. Sexy….. Then you get the one with the duckface… and they think that is sexy to make such a ridiculous face…. Moving on, oh the ones putting pics almost naked and even naked, those don’t look for love, just to get fucked and if they tell you the opposite, they lie. And of course, don’t forget all those who take a pic with a high angle, the camera above them to show their breasts…. And then women, i mean real women wonder why men treat them like bitches and objects…. yeah right….

Boy Side: Same shit as women. Between the one that post pics naked or just of their dicks… Not a joke… I just lose faith in humanity… And then you add those who take a pic with their dog or cat, or with the guitar (i guess some women like that, dunno) or with crazy scenery behind them. Basically with whatever make the woman not look at them but at what they are showing… and mostly,sorry to tell you that guys, we are more attracted to the dog cat guitar or scenery you are taking a pic with, not you. And once they talk to you, the good old: How’s you?…. Like seriously? Can’t you guys be a bit more… i don’t know, inventive? Or do you only know those 3 damn words?

Once you passed the state of talking on that website, usually is continues on msn or Facebook, then the people meet. But the breaking point is here. Even if you talk to let’s say 10 people from the dating website, 3 will make it to the msn address, 2 maybe to meet in real, and just one with who you might end up friend… or in the best case you will date, not for long, it will be over…. What a joke.

And people still believe they can find true love on that… Yeah right!

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Intolerance, Racism, all the same.

Something really, but really pisses me off. I was raised by a catholic family, and alright I ended up atheist. But one thing my family taught me, is being tolerant, accepting other. And what life taught me is not to reject others for their differences, but on the contrary accept them for those. When you are being bullied, beaten all your life because of what you look like, you learn to be very defensive, but also not to do to others, what you don’t want them to do to you. And especially, to look past the appearance.

Well i see in the street, internet, or even chats things, too many people intolerant.

Let me tell you a little story. I went to look at a clip on YouTube, Queen: Who wants to live forever. It’s an amazing music but some moron posted a comment “He is gay” and another replied “No shit, he is gay? i can’t listen to him anymore, my parents raised me not to support homosexuals”

Now comes me being shocked. What does it have to do with anything? What he does in his bed has nothing to do with the music! Your boss may be into BDSM and you don’t know about it! And where is the problem being homosexual, lesbian, black, green, blue, red or whatever?

Let me teach you one thing, to all those who think they are better than others, to those who think being gay isn’t natural, that it’s against god and whatever bullshit reasons you will use. They are who they are, and everywhere you will find good and bad people, but do they throw their sexuality in your face? Do they throw their privacy in your face? Non they don’t. And what do you do? You throw your religion in their face.

I know several people who are gay or bisexual, and they are adorable. One of them, i can talk with him for hours, he got amazing culture and knowledge. He can talk to you about anything, and he is very tolerant, someone truly sweet and funny. Another one i know fought all his life and he got his own shop and brand. He is sweet and he keeps fighting everyday.
You think those are not natural? And what about all those so called gangsta bastard who do not have a problem raping weaker guys in jail?
You say if gays get married, it will destroy the sanctity of marriage? What about all those women, stars who get married for 3 days top max and divorce?
You say they are against god’s laws? Doesn’t YOUR damn god teach you to forgive, be tolerant and open your arms to mankind? And if it was SOooooooo against it, when why did your god create them?
You say it’s disgusting? What about those who beat their wives, rape people, beat children? Aren’t they disgusting?

And all of that is the same about people with another color or background as yourself. They are the same as you, except from another place. Some can be bad, i won’t say the opposite but everywhere you will find jerks, white, black, grey, or whatever.They have another religion than you so they are bad, why? They have different beliefs, true, but they could do the same to your because of your religion or color. Because remember well, there has been many wars in the past because of color or religion. And for those of you who still think “He is black/Muslim/Pakistani/japanese…….” (and here add whatever racial insult you might know to complete those dots) are NO BETTER that those who wasted millions of lives trying to force your own kind into their house.

I hate people, that is true, i hate them for rejecting what is different. But i still believe we could all live together, respecting eachother’s differences and learning from them. But so far, we can’t. Because some stupid people think it’s right to raise kids to hate whoever is different and go on a “war” against them. And to those I say, FUCK YOU. One day, you will learn it the hard way.

25 year old, 10 years of study in college and 5 in every single job possible.

Rant of today and i guess most job seekers will agree on that, companies are truly and deeply unreasonable about their expectation on candidates for a job. Let’s face it! They want you to be young (tons of energy and really motivated to work) so you will agree to do whatever work even the most annoying and painful one. They want you to have studies kinda like 10 years (In every single course, because everything is needed for the job they offer, you should know it…) of course, got high degree in whatever field, and  5 years experience minimum in the job they ask you to do (and now explain me when do you have time to get so much experience).

Am I the only one to find that stupid? Mostly when you study especially for high diplomas, you don’t have time to work in the same time, or maybe summer jobs. But that ain’t enough! They want more, but that experience, one day, we need to be given the chance to build experience. isn’t that true? For people who have been in that field for a while, alright they have the experience, but for young ones, not really.

And then when you MANAGE to pass to the interview, you get told that in the end, you are not fitted for the job, or that you don’t give the right image… So in the end, even if you have the qualification, experience, skills, if you don’t have a nice head that they will like, you are fucked. I don’t see why a punk having all the right degree and qualification wouldn’t be more suitable for that job than a moron with just a nice suit…..

And the worse is, when you are a foreigner. You get looked at as if you were unable to understand their language. Well i am sorry but if you go through all the trouble to learn the language, to write a CV in English, and do your best to even sound native, being treated like “I am sorry but you will have difficulties here with the language”… There I say, sorry? Try to speak 3 languages fluently then talk to me about not being able to follow a conversation!!!

For the junkies and other ones who do not look for a job or don’t want to work, i say, let them rot in their shit, but for people who DO want to work, please, to all of you who offer a job, stop being so judgmental, stop looking at us like we are some kind of dumb kids… And it’s not because we don’t have ALL the experience you require or ALL the qualifications you want that we can’t do a good job.

The Diamond Jubilee, what a piece of crap!

I guess today is the perfect day to talk about the queen of England. I live in Scotland and everyday they annoy us on SCOTTISH TV channels about that damn jubilee. Let’s make it clear, 95% of Scottish people do not give a damn about that woman nor recognize her as their queen. For them, she is the queen of ENGLAND, not Scotland. Last time she came, she got eggs thrown at her face, and they want Scotland to celebrate her 60 years being at the head of a country but not taking a single decision?

Let’s face it, the royal family of England is just here for the tabloids. Does they make laws or rule the country? OF COURSE NOT! It’s the Prime minister who got more power than the queen. So what is she here for? The tabloids? They get money to do nothing apart from waving at people. And they complain about them having too much tax to pay? Let’s remember that they ear what most of us would DREAM of earning.

But that jubilee is to celebrate her 60 years of power? What power? She got no power. So that jubilee could be just like her having a speech…. That would be too fun right? Basically big festivities, spend TONS of money (indeed soooooo wise seeing in what deep shit and economical shit the country is) for celebration of her reign. Are they damn mad? Ok maybe forget the economical problems with some celebrations, could be right but people still gotta pay for all that crap. And her, what is she gonna do? Sit…And that’s it. Ok she is old, but if she is so, then let the next generation reign then -,-.

English people are crazy. But if they want to waste money, their problem, if they want to show off an old hag, they shit! But keep it in THEIR country and do not bring it in Scotland. And because Scotland isn’t independent, the money THEY spend will affect Scotland too.

What a waste of time… I am french and at least in France we beheaded our kings and the monarchy. I wish this island would do the same (choose if you prefer to do it literally or just metaphorically)